Biography

Born. Oedipus-complex.

In love with schoolteacher, hurt my knee and went together to the doctor by taxi with her, a moment of true intense love, a wonderful first date.

First kiss.

 In love with a girl six years older than me, she was not interested in me and my toys.

After seeing Kathleen Turner in ‘Jewel of the nile’  I was totally in love. Tore a picture out of the newspaper and hid it in my wallet... My first love secret.

 In love with the most popular girl in school, one-way love.

Again in love with my school teacher.

First 'real' girlfriend, thought that kissing was squeezing lips together without stopping, unique moments.

Learned how mysterious girls can be, didn't understand them.(current status= no change)

Love at first sight. Followed by a relationship but didn't last long.

Nothing but little loves, rather shallow and a bit empty. Fished a lot, caught little.

1994

Big love, real sexual life started here.

Bad boy, deep hurting emotions and stress, always confessed the day after. Wrong path of life, hated my studies, worst moment ever until now. Later that year I had a new big love but after 6 months my heart was torn into 1000 pieces.

Looking for the pieces and slowly glueing them together,  cheap glue that time. Sex, love and rock and roll, fun but not enough, I wanted to feel the real deal.My first 'love injection' (second secret), stuck a rose on her bedroom window. I didn’t add a note, so it took her 9 months to find out who did it. Nothing ever flourished between us.

In search of the 'perfect' woman, looked everywhere, found nothing.

Finished Law school and was determined never to do anything in that direction again..Decided to live between Spanish emotions, 1 suitcase, 1 bus ticket and a Spanish dictionary... Santander, here I come.

All of a sudden 3 women in my life, 2 from Spain , 1 distance realtionship with someone from Belgium, my head almost exploded, too many women. Not recommendable! Luckely I had made the right choice, my feelings became to powerful to ignore for one of the Spanish girls. Emotions that I had never experienced before. Not just puppy love but love from deep within my soul. 

My love keeps on growing for her. Changed my path of life, thanks to my partner (still love her for that), she was the first to point me in the right direction. Told my parents that I was not coming home in the near future.

I had just finished my script for my feature film and my girlfriend decided to move to Barcelona to find a job. We had two options, I could stay in Santander and would have to be satisfied with a long distance relationship or I could follow her for the second time and start a new life in the big city. The decision was easy.

2007  

This relationship will survive forever, we have to work for it but we are still on the rollercoaster.

Current girlfriend the perfect match? 10 years and counting... 

2 weeks before my first art show in a gallery in Santander, my girlfriend told me that it was over??! Learned that love has a lot of sides which are hidden for our eyes. But, she will always be one of the most important persons in my life. About the show, didn’t sell one piece, worst time in my entire life. Everything seemed blurry for a while. I took all my paintings and left for Barcelona and Madrid(N2 gallery) to do a second and third exhibition, everything was sold.

I went back to my roots after 12 years realizing that my family is one full of love and goodness. They are what I make.

(analyzing the past)...Packed and ready to discover new paths of love.